How can we surrender to the resistance within us? How can we become more accepting and less fearful?
We can begin by asking ourselves what stands in our way. What stands in the way of our desires? What prevents us from reaching for the stars, and making our wishes come true?
No matter the question, if our desire has not come to fruition as of yet; then the answer would most likely encompass some type of resistance. Often we direct our focus toward the unwanted and therefore attract more of what we don't want. We instead propel momentum further into a place from which on the contrary we are trying to escape. When we say no to something, we are inviting in the very thing we are saying no to. This is a form of vibrational discord. The more we resist a situation, the more we energize it. While this isn't some kind of Quantum Physics Phenomenon, the analogy can be explained by a classic mechanics principle, and that of the "Third Law of Motion".
According to Isaac Newton's Third Law of Motion: "When a force is applied to an object, that object exerts an equal and opposite - counterforce." The counterforce is re-applied back onto the object exerting this very force. This is called simultaneous occurrence, and where both forces happen at the same time. We could compare this analogy to "push & pull". Essentially, this means that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
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The Surrender of Control..
We are so accustomed to making things happen, but we need to let them happen instead. The paradox here is; that by trying to make them happen, we prevent them from happening. So what transpires when we allow for things to happen, instead of making them happen?
Often we assert control over our circumstances. This stagnates our energy and likewise; stifles our experience because of the resistance present. We must acknowledge this resistance but more so observe it, accept it, allow it, and not fight it. We need to give it a permission to exist. That is the truest way to expand. By lessening the control we can allow space for energy to flow; for the Universe to align, and bring forward the cooperative components for things to form - and in divine timing. When we release resistance we have more energy toward the desired outcome. Likewise, when we focus on something that we do not have or want; this instead adds resistance and slows down the otherwise available inspiration, as well as halts our sense of intuition. We are then unable to recognize the connection of such cooperative elements; whether they are people, events, or circumstances gracing our journey and we miss out on synchronicities that often reveal the path to our desire. We blindly assign limits to the opportunities present, and often to those that are right in front of us. By consenting to acceptance, we receive silent access to intuition that brings us the answers we need to move to the next step on our journey.
The question to then ask would be:
"Where am I in relationship to where I wish to be?"
This depends upon the direction of our thought. There is a myriad of answers, actions, and parallel realities that exist all at once. It is within the power of our choice where we wish to land, arrive, and move toward, and which one of them we choose to tune into. While the results certainly take time, it is within the persistence of our mind to accept circumstances without attachment to an outcome and allow for our frequency to resonate from this space. This is a pivotal step to allow for Higher Power to be at work, and co-create from the energy of non-attachment.
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"It is the thought that poisons, not the chemical or the virus."
When we insist and attach our thoughts to a particular outcome, we are introducing force into the equation and eliminating the ease that allows the natural flow of energy within the Quantum Field. This attachment is what separates us from the otherwise available myriad of possibilities and assigns limits to our creations.
We will be in positive emotion unless we focus on something that doesn't allow it. Negative emotion is essentially the resistance to what would be a positive emotion otherwise. We must release the attachment, the fixation, and the addiction to "what is" and simply trust. This is what the true path to acceptance is.
Conscious change always begins with acceptance.
So, how do we know when we aren't fully present in acceptance?
When we feel pain we are on the path of resistance. We feel tension, discomfort, and discord. When we are resistant to the current state of our reality - change cannot occur. When we become accepting we become flexible and therefore we can change our reality. Instead, when we focus on feeling good no matter the circumstances and making the best of things, we can begin to pre-pave our days, lead with an intention, and create change. We can stop adding momentum to the behaviors that don't serve us. This grants us the opportunity to invest our energy wisely, take actions that elevate us, foster a healthy environment for our mind, and be the creators of our own experience. Once we begin to accept our circumstances, the harmony between thoughts and emotions will align to reflect in our outer environment.
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The Nature of Acceptance..
"When we begin to accept our experience "as is" without expectations,
we learn to explore the positive in any circumstance and naturally let go of resistance.
This allows a flow of energy into our experience and therefore a co-creation
between us and the Higher Power.
Subtle signs, messages, and inspiration then illuminate our path,
and all around us begins to affirm this magic in every experience that graces our journey." ~Vendula Kalinova
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